Another early mentor
The formidable figure of Father Beckers came into my life quite by accident. But an apparently casual remark of his became my mantra as the months flowed into years.
We in school in the 1960s had nothing to do with him. Although we were quite familiar with the sight of a man in pyjama and khadi panjabi cycling in and out of Xavier’s, the school students were in no way connected with him. The well-built man with the receding hairline gave the impression of a man in a hurry. He had no time to waste. We did not bother; nor did he.
Ironically, perhaps, I first met him beyond the gates of Xavier’s. I was walking down to the maidan with my cricket kit in the afternoon just before the last period of class. In a grave voice he asked, “Missing class?” I nodded and added, “Yes, father, with permission from the prefect I am off to cricket practice.” Instantly his face lit up, “Ah! I see. Good. Try to utilize that activity for others benefit.” To be honest I did not realize the import of those words on that day.
Years later when I was playing serious cricket, he was to tell me on one occasion, “Raju, are you involving people into cricket? Why don’t you coach those who do not have the opportunity of formal coaching?” This was the last thing on my mind that afternoon. Here I was trying to put bat to ball in the best way I could, but a voice wanted me to assist others less fortunate.
In time when my active cricket was over, it was the voice of Fr Beckers that commanded me to take up active cricket coaching, especially of children who were not privileged. Was he a visionary who could see beyond time and space?
Fr Beckers never taught in school. Chemistry was his forte. He made valencies and compounds palatable to generations of St Xavier’s College students. But more than mixtures and formulae, it was his chemistry with the young people that mattered most to him. He was in his elements with the social service activities of students in college. He was the catalyst of blood donation camps in the city as well as the initiator of schemes that motivated people to donate eyes and bodies after death. He had too many, just too many activities to keep himself engaged.
One of his greatest qualities was to make others feel relaxed and adequate in his presence. The huge man of handsome features never created an aura of invincibility or impregnability. He never cared for the prosperous and the prominent. The truth is that he had far more time for young students coming to St Xavier’s College from vernacular backgrounds as well as from the handicapped sections of society. He actually found Xaverians from the school to be too namby-pamby and self-seeking for his community-oriented outlook in life.
Once I had asked him about the pressures of living. He laughed, “Raju, when you have seen war, starvation, floods, drought and the torture faced daily by women and children, nothing else is pressure in comparison.” To my dying day, I would remember that we who are born with silver spoons have no right to talk about pressures and tensions in life.
The bi-cycle
was his constant companion. The rugged man in sandals or Hawaiian chappals would be seen all over his
favourite city of
That was typical of Fr Beckers. He was far above sectarianism, parochialism, any distinction between people. I doubt if he ever even thought of nationalities and boundaries. He was what Tagore had in mind when the great man wrote on the Universal Man. He was the epitome of ideal and character. A man to admire. A man to emulate. An icon of rare fibre.
The common man on the street was his real friend: the sweeper, the rickshaw-puller and the puchka-wallah. Fr Beckers was the one in a million. He knew not arrogance, nor conceit. If it was the chemistry of elements and formulae he taught in classrooms, he personified the chemistry of life to people fortunate enough to cross him.
His was a life free of falsehood, of dishonesty. He did not seek publicity, nor worried about popularity. The baritone voice never quivered: from it emerged encouraging words on the harsh realities of life. The gentle soul did far more in one lifetime than many of us would ever visualize. May God always be with his humane soul.
Once I went to his 2nd-floor room and confided, “Father, I want to commit suicide!” Without even looking at me the reply was, “Lovely idea. Just jump out of the window. Once decision taken, don’t waste time.” Seeing me hesitate, he said, “Don’t you realize you are like me? We are total non-entities. Even if we die, it will not make any difference to anybody.”
“But father I am not making any headway in life. I do not want to live.” I was in tears.
With a hand on my shoulder, the giant whispered, “Son, think of the millions who are worse off than you are. You have food, roof and clothes. They have nothing. Live for them. Try to do something for them. Now, go back to class and prepare yourself.”
Those simple words changed my life…